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The guilt of living better lives than our parents
Recently, I was on the phone with my father, lecturing him about how he should 'let it go, don't care what people have to say.’ Mid-lecture, I caught myself and stopped, because asking him to do that so nonchalantly was not only wrong, but also unrealistic. For his generation, what people will say is a daily affirmation. This brought on a slight pang of guilt. I am coming from a place of boundary setting and therapy, and all he’s had is this very society and its ways. And it
Feb 213 min read


(unrelenting) Faith is a Luxury
Venturing into sacred territory. I’ve chosen a rather controversial topic, one with little allowance for varying opinions. To avoid...
Jul 14, 20254 min read


I used to be cool, but now I say things like...
I can't, that gives me gas ( that = a growing number of ingredients, but mostly dairy) I don't hate them. Hate is a strong word to use....
Mar 30, 20252 min read


Losing a Little Everyday - Living life with Anticipatory Grief.
This is not a pity piece , but an awareness one. I’d like you to keep that in mind, if you make it to the end. My mother was diagnosed...
Feb 17, 20254 min read


Life & Lemonade Turns 4
It’s been an interesting yet incredible four years… I’ve challenged myself to embrace honesty, focusing on my ‘why’ rather than fixating...
Sep 29, 20243 min read


No Time For Mediocre Love
Nothing is promised & life can change in a flash, don’t take your love for granted & if you are out looking, don't settle for mediocre love
Aug 10, 20244 min read


The Courage to Unlearn
Let me start with the borrowed words from Adam Grant - It takes curiosity to learn. It takes courage to unlearn. Learning is how you...
May 16, 20243 min read


The 'Canadian' Dream
Hi! I’m Zenia, a Canadian citizen of Indian origin who immigrated here almost 6 years ago. In India - I am a minority, belonging to the...
Feb 9, 20244 min read


Rules For 2024
The last time I was all charged, optimistic, and focused about a year, it was in 2020 and we all know how that turned out. I stopped...
Jan 5, 20242 min read


States of Elation
Oxford Dictionary defines elation as 'a feeling of great joy or pride' 'exultant gladness' 'high spirits' We've reserved 'elation' for...
Sep 18, 20232 min read


The utopian idea of a dream job
How many of us subscribe to the thinking that getting a dream job, your dream job, will change everything? Will make you jump out of bed...
Aug 10, 20233 min read


Co-Existence With Our Grief
Life & Lemonade presents a candid conversation about grief in it's very first video. How we carry it. How it molds us How do we interact...
May 6, 20231 min read


Catastrophists: The worst case scenario club
Catastrophizing: It means a person fixates on the worst possible outcome and treats it as likely, even when it is not. I am somewhat of a...
Apr 24, 20234 min read


Family is everything, and sometimes not
Broaching a touchy topic here, but a necessary one, so bear with me. I’ve grown up listening to ‘Blood is thicker than water’ which has...
Feb 27, 20233 min read


An unremarkable year
PSA: not every year in your life is going to be remarkable. fantastic. excellent. 10/10. This is not an outcome for lack of trying. It’s...
Dec 24, 20222 min read


POV: you trivialize your hardships and/or achievements every now & then
Recently, I was in conversation with someone pretty close to me and they asked me about my mom’s health and how I was doing as a result...
Nov 19, 20223 min read


12 unequivocal signs that you are ‘Thriving’
If you identify with any of these, my friend, YOU ARE THRIVING. You have a roof over your head, food in the fridge, clothes for every...
Sep 19, 20222 min read


That Fine Line Between Content & Complacency
scrolling through social media and you are hit with posts in bold fonts exclaiming - DO NOT BE CONTENT WITH YOUR CURRENT POSITION. BETTER...
Aug 15, 20223 min read


Hey Jude
This piece is dedicated to a dear friend I admire. I do not want him going through this life not knowing the impact he has had in mine...
Aug 15, 20222 min read


Apathetic Alphas
ap·a·thet·ic showing or feeling no interest, enthusiasm or concern. al·pha a leader; self-assured, powerful and confident in everything...
Jun 2, 20223 min read
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