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The guilt of living better lives than our parents
Recently, I was on the phone with my father, lecturing him about how he should 'let it go, don't care what people have to say.’ Mid-lecture, I caught myself and stopped, because asking him to do that so nonchalantly was not only wrong, but also unrealistic. For his generation, what people will say is a daily affirmation. This brought on a slight pang of guilt. I am coming from a place of boundary setting and therapy, and all he’s had is this very society and its ways. And it
Feb 213 min read


(unrelenting) Faith is a Luxury
Venturing into sacred territory. I’ve chosen a rather controversial topic, one with little allowance for varying opinions. To avoid...
Jul 14, 20254 min read


I used to be cool, but now I say things like...
I can't, that gives me gas ( that = a growing number of ingredients, but mostly dairy) I don't hate them. Hate is a strong word to use....
Mar 30, 20252 min read


Losing a Little Everyday - Living life with Anticipatory Grief.
This is not a pity piece , but an awareness one. I’d like you to keep that in mind, if you make it to the end. My mother was diagnosed...
Feb 17, 20254 min read


Life & Lemonade Turns 4
It’s been an interesting yet incredible four years… I’ve challenged myself to embrace honesty, focusing on my ‘why’ rather than fixating...
Sep 29, 20243 min read


The Courage to Unlearn
Let me start with the borrowed words from Adam Grant - It takes curiosity to learn. It takes courage to unlearn. Learning is how you...
May 16, 20243 min read


The 'Canadian' Dream
Hi! I’m Zenia, a Canadian citizen of Indian origin who immigrated here almost 6 years ago. In India - I am a minority, belonging to the...
Feb 9, 20244 min read


Rules For 2024
The last time I was all charged, optimistic, and focused about a year, it was in 2020 and we all know how that turned out. I stopped...
Jan 5, 20242 min read


Life in the Age Of Worry
an essay about life lately We are a generation that is hopeful - For our parents who struggled through preceding recessions, wars, and...
Nov 18, 20233 min read


12 unequivocal signs that you are ‘Thriving’
If you identify with any of these, my friend, YOU ARE THRIVING. You have a roof over your head, food in the fridge, clothes for every...
Sep 19, 20222 min read


Apathetic Alphas
ap·a·thet·ic showing or feeling no interest, enthusiasm or concern. al·pha a leader; self-assured, powerful and confident in everything...
Jun 2, 20223 min read


Guest Feature | A Suicide Prevention Story - Maithili Chodankar
Life & Lemonade's very first contributor - she reached out to use this as a medium to share a life-altering experience in the hope to...
Nov 28, 20216 min read


Lost in a Sea of Toxic Positivity
No matter how difficult a situation, just maintain a positive attitude, ok? - WELL, NO. SOMETIMES IT GETS OVERBEARING AND LEADS US TO...
Nov 16, 20212 min read


We The Children
It's tough to have an ailing parent/parents, I'm grateful every day for the people in my life that support me and my sister, care for us,...
Oct 4, 20212 min read


Life With An Introvert
When life gives you lemons, make lemonade and take a beat to think about your actions and their impact! An important realisation. Better...
Oct 4, 20214 min read


An Ode To Outgrown Friendships
Casually expressing a few things we need to normalize about this. (in my humble opinion) big call out - we need to normalize making new...
Oct 4, 20212 min read


Hard Pills to Swallow
When life gives you lemons, make lemonade, and try each day, to be a better person - note to self and issued in public interest. ...
Feb 8, 20213 min read
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