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The guilt of living better lives than our parents
Recently, I was on the phone with my father, lecturing him about how he should 'let it go, don't care what people have to say.’ Mid-lecture, I caught myself and stopped, because asking him to do that so nonchalantly was not only wrong, but also unrealistic. For his generation, what people will say is a daily affirmation. This brought on a slight pang of guilt. I am coming from a place of boundary setting and therapy, and all he’s had is this very society and its ways. And it
Feb 213 min read


(unrelenting) Faith is a Luxury
Venturing into sacred territory. I’ve chosen a rather controversial topic, one with little allowance for varying opinions. To avoid...
Jul 14, 20254 min read


I used to be cool, but now I say things like...
I can't, that gives me gas ( that = a growing number of ingredients, but mostly dairy) I don't hate them. Hate is a strong word to use....
Mar 30, 20252 min read


The Courage to Unlearn
Let me start with the borrowed words from Adam Grant - It takes curiosity to learn. It takes courage to unlearn. Learning is how you...
May 16, 20243 min read


The 'Canadian' Dream
Hi! I’m Zenia, a Canadian citizen of Indian origin who immigrated here almost 6 years ago. In India - I am a minority, belonging to the...
Feb 9, 20244 min read


Rules For 2024
The last time I was all charged, optimistic, and focused about a year, it was in 2020 and we all know how that turned out. I stopped...
Jan 5, 20242 min read


An unremarkable year
PSA: not every year in your life is going to be remarkable. fantastic. excellent. 10/10. This is not an outcome for lack of trying. It’s...
Dec 24, 20222 min read


POV: you trivialize your hardships and/or achievements every now & then
Recently, I was in conversation with someone pretty close to me and they asked me about my mom’s health and how I was doing as a result...
Nov 19, 20223 min read


12 unequivocal signs that you are ‘Thriving’
If you identify with any of these, my friend, YOU ARE THRIVING. You have a roof over your head, food in the fridge, clothes for every...
Sep 19, 20222 min read


Apathetic Alphas
ap·a·thet·ic showing or feeling no interest, enthusiasm or concern. al·pha a leader; self-assured, powerful and confident in everything...
Jun 2, 20223 min read


Lost in a Sea of Toxic Positivity
No matter how difficult a situation, just maintain a positive attitude, ok? - WELL, NO. SOMETIMES IT GETS OVERBEARING AND LEADS US TO...
Nov 16, 20212 min read


Dedicated To Intangible Yet Incredible Things
I started Life & Lemonade a year ago on Instagram, and I’m pretty happy with how far I’ve come and the things I’ve written about. Like...
Oct 11, 20213 min read
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