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The guilt of living better lives than our parents
Recently, I was on the phone with my father, lecturing him about how he should 'let it go, don't care what people have to say.’ Mid-lecture, I caught myself and stopped, because asking him to do that so nonchalantly was not only wrong, but also unrealistic. For his generation, what people will say is a daily affirmation. This brought on a slight pang of guilt. I am coming from a place of boundary setting and therapy, and all he’s had is this very society and its ways. And it
Feb 213 min read


Losing a Little Everyday - Living life with Anticipatory Grief.
This is not a pity piece , but an awareness one. I’d like you to keep that in mind, if you make it to the end. My mother was diagnosed...
Feb 17, 20254 min read


Family is everything, and sometimes not
Broaching a touchy topic here, but a necessary one, so bear with me. I’ve grown up listening to ‘Blood is thicker than water’ which has...
Feb 27, 20233 min read


An open letter to everyone that has asked - Why you are not coming home this year/for the holidays?
Dear everyone that has asked, Happy Holidays! I write on behalf of a bunch of us that couldn’t/decided not to fly back to our home...
Dec 24, 20213 min read


Little Miracles
Sipping my lemonade, basking in the glory of 𝑯𝑰𝑺 grace. A special serving of lemonade. A very very personal experience. A testament...
Apr 11, 20213 min read


Found Nemo
Raising a glass of lemonade to my incredible sister today. #PeopleIAdmire Most of us go through life paying tribute to our friends and...
Feb 14, 20212 min read
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